Most BBW, like their male counterparts, usually lean towards being shy and funny.Though not all, the social stigma on big girls have caused many of us on the heavier side are less than confident. We may easily poke fun at ourselves, but trust me, deep inside we chubby ladies are too sensitive when the ‘joke’ is on us by someone else.
So if you’re going to date a plus size girl, here are some tips and notes for your inference:
1. Never compliment on the weight or the figure.
Big women are sensitive and can get a little defensive when the comment comes from someone else. Compliment her clothes, her face, her hair, touch her in the right places and she would appreciate it – everything else will do just keep off the body joke.
2. Careful with the comments you make about other people.
3. Do not try to change her.
You are dating her because you like her and you enjoy her company and you want to get to know her more. Don’t ask her to lose weight to get your love.
4. Introduce your special plus-sized girl to your friends and family as soon as you both feel comfortable.
5.Be proud of her around other people.
It helps her to be more self-confidence. She will feel better to be with you in public.
It’s so wonderful to find someone that makes us big girls feel so beautiful that we could not care less about what the world thinks about us or our body. That does a lot of good to how big women feel about themselves, and in return, how they feel about their matches.